In order to change your life, you must change your mind. Simply put: See a situation or
person from a different angle. As a teen I read a book, The Disputed Passage, by
Lloyd C. Douglas. My life was altered by this delightful novel’s underlying
theme: You can learn something from anyone and often the best lessons are
learned from people who “aren’t my style” or I “don’t like their manner” or I’m
“offended by their views (which really means I can’t stand people who don’t
agree with me)” or some other judgment that ignores their heart or intent.
Oh, how
much we miss! Our arrogance or our insecurity cheats us out of the most amazing
life lessons, experiences, and opportunities for growth, while indignation or prejudice
keeps us locked in our self-protective, self-righteous, independent little
worlds. The Apostle Paul addressed this in I Corinthians with a “shame on you!”
to those who compared him to Apollos and found his manner abrasive. So I
challenge you…the next time you run into a sandpaper person, embrace them, love
them, get to really know them, and ask God what He wants you to learn from
them—and how He wants to bless them by your love and acceptance. I guarantee
you, if you do it, it will change your life. And maybe theirs, too!
